Love, Dating, and Romance

True Love Is Often A Challenge To Find, But It's Nothing You Can't Overcome!

Love is something that nobody can really truly ever figure out.

There's one thing that's certain though. If you really want to be in love, stop looking. And then stop thinking about it. Start focusing on other areas of your life, then when you least expect it, you will probably find your one true love. Is it luck? Is it astrology? Who knows what it is. But it is what it is. Are you looking for love seemingly in all the wrong places? Then you need to open up your mind and see what is out there... not worry about the rules or what you are doing right or wrong.

Desperate for love and passion and romance

Some people resort to somewhat drastic measures when they are desperate for love.

They seek out love advice from friends who are in successful marriages. Or just long-term relationships. But some people focus in on one person they have a crush on and try anything to make that person return the feelings.
Here's a story of one such person names Louise.

Once upon a time, Louise had a crush on a guy named Mike. She and Mike were good friends, but Louise could tell there was something more there. However, she was always the one to initiate any contact between them. When they were together, it seemed as though Mike was constantly flirting with her. He always sent mixed messages, and she always made herself available to him. This went on (and off, and on) for ten years or so. But it was hard to ever call it true love.

Finally, she had to know what he was thinking, but she was to afraid to find out from him. So Louise went to a psychic and asked her to place a love spell on Mike. The psychic said she shouldn't do that because then she'd always know that Mike didn't love her on his own. Louise said she could live with that. Then the psychic agreed to it, professing that her love spells didn't always work, but she would try. And try she did. But, alas, it didn't work. Finally one day, Louise gave up on Mike.

Many years later, Louise found true love with someone else and lived happily ever after.

The efforts of her husband to retain her love

Her new husband wrote her love poems to profess his love, and she never had to wonder how he felt. This was great because she felt the same way back. Still, whenever she saw Mike, she thought about his love letters and got that old rush of butterflies in her stomach even though she loved her husband dearly. Mike was, and always would be, Louise's unrequited love. Almost everyone has one of those. But she experienced the kind of love with her husband that made her glad things turned out the way they did.

Everyone is different and it can be a very long road to lasting happiness. Whether romance, to you, means you're writing love letter or something else, it takes work to keep one moving in the right direction and it takes a lot of strength to leave one behind when it does not meet your needs. There are always plenty of other people out there! Many of whom are just a love poem away.

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